My Relief Society President called me early in June and asked if I'd be willing to help with the upcoming Stake R.S. Self-Reliance Fair. As we talked about the goal for the self-reliance fair, an idea that has been on my mind off and on for the last year or so. But I've not acted because I just haven't had time. I have wanted to start a blog about surviving losing your primary income. So, my thought was to put together some hand outs on that. I told them I had considered starting a blog and would do a booth about that same idea. I was thinking I'd just have some handouts, but the more we talked the more I realized I really need to do the blog. Just too much info for handouts and we don't know how many people are coming so handouts are hard to gauge .... so I've started the blog.
I am keeping the blog ANONYMOUS so please don't use my name and don't send people to my family blog. THANKS!
So, here's my plea ... I need input from people and we want people to read the blog, so I'd love for you to share the following on your blog about it...
All our lives we are taught to be self-sufficient and serve others. So when a major financial crisis arises, whether it is caused by job loss, death, health problems or other personal issues, it turns your world upside down. It’s a trial that can cause you to doubt yourself, make you feel alone, destroy your relationships and try your faith. But we all put on a good face and say we are doing “ok”, when often, we really just want to cry. It’s a time when we need others, but because we’ve been taught to be self-sufficient, our pride often prevents us from letting others in and from sharing our stories and situation with others. This blog is to help us overcome that, to give us an opportunity to share our stories, to provide resources and information we learned along the way and to help lift one another so we can all endure it well.
Visit the blog to find all these resources: Personal stories from others. Tips on menu planning from the Storehouse and your food storage. Ways to maintain and strengthen your relationships with your spouse, your kids and your friends. Guidance on finding emotional strength. Resources on how to manage the money you have including when and where to get help. And ways to stay anchored to Christ through it all.
If you have endured or face this struggle, please share your tips, ideas and stories to help strengthen others and make it easier for others to endure. Leave a comment on the blog or email enduringfinancialstruggles@gmail.com (all posts are anonymous).
Monday, August 1, 2011
Sunday, July 31, 2011
A lot of posts today ...
I've been busy. :) I posted several posts about our time with Nao, our Japanese exchange student. The posts are about her first week with us which was July 15th - 21st. I really hope to post the rest of her trip (and a lot of other stuff) in the next week. 
We did say goodbye to her yesterday morning which was a TOUGH day. Nao became a part of our family in the two weeks she was here and we will always remember her and our time together.
Taylor and Jessica already have letters to send Nao. Taylor especially has had a hard time with Nao leaving. Taylor cried most of the day yesterday. She didn't show a lot of emotion at the school when we were saying bye but as soon as the bus rolled away, she and Jess both really cried. After we got home, Tay found a note from Nao to us and that really got her upset. I'd get her distracted and then something would come up that reminded her of Nao and she'd start to cry again. She hopes to see her again and wants to know when she's coming back.
Nao, we miss you!
We did say goodbye to her yesterday morning which was a TOUGH day. Nao became a part of our family in the two weeks she was here and we will always remember her and our time together.
Taylor and Jessica already have letters to send Nao. Taylor especially has had a hard time with Nao leaving. Taylor cried most of the day yesterday. She didn't show a lot of emotion at the school when we were saying bye but as soon as the bus rolled away, she and Jess both really cried. After we got home, Tay found a note from Nao to us and that really got her upset. I'd get her distracted and then something would come up that reminded her of Nao and she'd start to cry again. She hopes to see her again and wants to know when she's coming back.Nao, we miss you!
Life for me!
Life has been crazy around here the last several months, thus the lack of blogging. So, what exactly has made life crazy?
Let's start back in January ... I went to my tradeshow for my business and grew my business by about 30% in one month. I have more than doubled the size of my business in the past year (almost tripled in the last 18 months). It’s been a huge blessing but a lot of work. I did upgrade to a new much faster printer and switch to mailing all my postcards and letters with a postal permit instead of stamps, which was a huge time savings. The first couple of months with all the new clients is a lot of extra work… getting them all setup, answering their questions until they get used to our services plus the increased amount of work each month. It made February and March pretty crazy.
At the end of March, things started to settle down. I spent April cleaning up from the chaos in February and March. And then I realized that I needed to hire a new assistant by May 1st. We posted an ad on KSL for a new assistant and in 2 weeks got about 80 applicants. I spent a lot of time reviewing resumes, responding to resumes and analyzing what I really needed in a new assistant. While we were driving home from California during spring break, Steve and I analyzed what I really needed in a new assistant and narrowed down the resumes to just 9 to interview. We got those scheduled and hired my new assistant the last week of April.
May came and we had to do twice as many mailers as we had done in April due to a contest Mary Kay had run. It was INSANE. We printed 20,000 mailers (thank goodness for that new printer and the permit mailing) plus geared up for what is traditionally our busiest month of the year for custom projects. Steve also started a new job (wahoo!). It is technically a part time job/income but it helps make ends meet and takes a lot of stress off of both of us. He is really enjoying it and there is potential for the company he works for to really grow including his position growing. It allows him to be able to do things on the side with audioShare and still help me. With my business growth has come the need for more automation and IT support … so Steve has been very instrumental in allowing our growth.
June brought the end of the school year, my busiest month for custom projects (close to 100 hours worth of work) on top of my regular work, a wedding for my assistant (and thus her absence in my office for more than half the month), birthdays for two kids (parties with family and parties with friends), swim meets, a block party, my sister visiting, a business trip for Steve, getting ready for a baptism and the normal summer fun.
July has been equally busy with Taylor’s baptism, Fourth of July activities, another growth spurt in my business, new fiscal year for my business (which includes creating about 30 new designs and preparing a packet with about 15 things in it for each of my clients... we've taken over my dining room), about 15 custom projects, more swim meets, regular work, another business trip for Steve and summer fun. Plus throw in getting the house ready for a house guest and then having our exchange student for 15 days. And if you’ve read the posts I’ve already done about the first week Nao was here, you know we didn’t have a single moment of spare time.
Phew…. That’s what I’ve been up to!! So, yes, I have a LOT of blogging to do and I’ll do my best to catch up on things but I’m making no promises. With a new month starting, a camping trip coming up this week, work continuing to be very busy and getting ready for the girls to go back to school … well, you all understand how busy August is as a mom. Maybe once the kids are back in school, life will settle down a little bit. ... I can dream right? Hope you are all having a good summer.
Let's start back in January ... I went to my tradeshow for my business and grew my business by about 30% in one month. I have more than doubled the size of my business in the past year (almost tripled in the last 18 months). It’s been a huge blessing but a lot of work. I did upgrade to a new much faster printer and switch to mailing all my postcards and letters with a postal permit instead of stamps, which was a huge time savings. The first couple of months with all the new clients is a lot of extra work… getting them all setup, answering their questions until they get used to our services plus the increased amount of work each month. It made February and March pretty crazy.
At the end of March, things started to settle down. I spent April cleaning up from the chaos in February and March. And then I realized that I needed to hire a new assistant by May 1st. We posted an ad on KSL for a new assistant and in 2 weeks got about 80 applicants. I spent a lot of time reviewing resumes, responding to resumes and analyzing what I really needed in a new assistant. While we were driving home from California during spring break, Steve and I analyzed what I really needed in a new assistant and narrowed down the resumes to just 9 to interview. We got those scheduled and hired my new assistant the last week of April.May came and we had to do twice as many mailers as we had done in April due to a contest Mary Kay had run. It was INSANE. We printed 20,000 mailers (thank goodness for that new printer and the permit mailing) plus geared up for what is traditionally our busiest month of the year for custom projects. Steve also started a new job (wahoo!). It is technically a part time job/income but it helps make ends meet and takes a lot of stress off of both of us. He is really enjoying it and there is potential for the company he works for to really grow including his position growing. It allows him to be able to do things on the side with audioShare and still help me. With my business growth has come the need for more automation and IT support … so Steve has been very instrumental in allowing our growth.
June brought the end of the school year, my busiest month for custom projects (close to 100 hours worth of work) on top of my regular work, a wedding for my assistant (and thus her absence in my office for more than half the month), birthdays for two kids (parties with family and parties with friends), swim meets, a block party, my sister visiting, a business trip for Steve, getting ready for a baptism and the normal summer fun.
July has been equally busy with Taylor’s baptism, Fourth of July activities, another growth spurt in my business, new fiscal year for my business (which includes creating about 30 new designs and preparing a packet with about 15 things in it for each of my clients... we've taken over my dining room), about 15 custom projects, more swim meets, regular work, another business trip for Steve and summer fun. Plus throw in getting the house ready for a house guest and then having our exchange student for 15 days. And if you’ve read the posts I’ve already done about the first week Nao was here, you know we didn’t have a single moment of spare time.
Phew…. That’s what I’ve been up to!! So, yes, I have a LOT of blogging to do and I’ll do my best to catch up on things but I’m making no promises. With a new month starting, a camping trip coming up this week, work continuing to be very busy and getting ready for the girls to go back to school … well, you all understand how busy August is as a mom. Maybe once the kids are back in school, life will settle down a little bit. ... I can dream right? Hope you are all having a good summer.
Taylor's Baptism Cake
My friend Jennylynn makes awesome cakes. (If this post doesn't convince you how great they are, check out her blog at www.cakesbyjennylnn.blogspot.com) Taylor doesn't eat cake, but a few months ago we went to her friend Amber's baptism. Taylor noticed that Amber got to cut up the cake and asked if she could cut the cake at her baptism ... so I asked Jenny to make her a cake. I didn't give her any instruction other than it was for Tay's baptism. Jenny chose to do the cake in white, pale pink and black. It was perfect for Taylor. She loved it!
I posted this today because I saw it on Jenny's blog and stole the pics... :) I'll post more about her baptism, Alyssa's & Taylor's birthday and the rest of our summer fun soon. Trying to catch up on everything. About halfway done with our 2 week exchange student experience.
I posted this today because I saw it on Jenny's blog and stole the pics... :) I'll post more about her baptism, Alyssa's & Taylor's birthday and the rest of our summer fun soon. Trying to catch up on everything. About halfway done with our 2 week exchange student experience.
Ra - Ra - Ra Ra Ra ... Goooo Cougars!
When our boating trip for Thursday night got canceled (the person taking us got stuck out of town on a biz trip) we chose to go to BYU! ... of course, everyone who comes to visit us needs to be indoctrinated Cougar Style!! At Church on Sunday, Nao had been taught by one of our neighbors to make that horrible letter for the school up north ... we corrected that and she enjoyed her visit to BYU! 
We visited Lavell Edwards Stadium and the Cougar statue. 
Then we went to the Wilkinson Student Center and BYU Bookstore where Nao got many souvenirs ... all with BYU logos on them!
Next stop, J Dawgs of course!
Then we headed to the final Mens Soccer game of the summer that was just starting as we drove past. BYU won, of course! :)
We visited Lavell Edwards Stadium and the Cougar statue. 
Then we went to the Wilkinson Student Center and BYU Bookstore where Nao got many souvenirs ... all with BYU logos on them!
Next stop, J Dawgs of course!
Then we headed to the final Mens Soccer game of the summer that was just starting as we drove past. BYU won, of course! :)
Movie night
On Monday when Nao went to school, she told her teacher and friends about our theater. Most of the homes in her area of Japan don't have big TV's much less theaters. Her teacher was very excited about our theater so Nao asked if her chaperones could come to see our theater. We agreed and worked it out that they would come to dinner on Wednesday night. We asked her vice principal what he would like to eat and he said "MEAT". So, we planned tri-tip with firehouse marinade (soy sauce, Italian dressing, red and green peppers), baked potatoes, salad and garlic bread.
At Nao's school (and I guess at most high schools in Japan) teachers stick with their students as their students move from grade to grade. They develop closer relationship with these teachers then our students probably do with US teachers. They spend three years with the students and then start with a new class. And in many schools, the English teachers go on a 2 week HomeStay trip with their students the summer before their Senior year.
When Nao got home from school, the girls played Uno Attack with her. They played this quite a bit while she was here. She knew how to play Uno but had never seen the "Attack" part before.
While Steve barbecued the meat, we relaxed outside and the girls played "walking" tag with Nao (since she can't run, they all walked instead).
Check out that slab of meat! Oishii ... delicious!
When we had sufficiently stuffed ouselves, and we all felt "ippai" (prounounced ee pie - means full), we moved to the theater for movie time. Since their English isn't top notch a regular movie is hard to understand so they chose to watch our favorite Cique du Soleil video. They loved it!
One final shot of all of us.
At Nao's school (and I guess at most high schools in Japan) teachers stick with their students as their students move from grade to grade. They develop closer relationship with these teachers then our students probably do with US teachers. They spend three years with the students and then start with a new class. And in many schools, the English teachers go on a 2 week HomeStay trip with their students the summer before their Senior year.
When Nao got home from school, the girls played Uno Attack with her. They played this quite a bit while she was here. She knew how to play Uno but had never seen the "Attack" part before.
While Steve barbecued the meat, we relaxed outside and the girls played "walking" tag with Nao (since she can't run, they all walked instead). 
Check out that slab of meat! Oishii ... delicious! 
When we had sufficiently stuffed ouselves, and we all felt "ippai" (prounounced ee pie - means full), we moved to the theater for movie time. Since their English isn't top notch a regular movie is hard to understand so they chose to watch our favorite Cique du Soleil video. They loved it! 
One final shot of all of us.
A taste of Japanese culture
The area Nao is from is known for udon noodles. So, she told us she would cook udon for us. She brought everything she needed. So Tuesday night, she made udon noodles with a broth-type liquid served cold, then she made yakisoba with udon noodles, cabbage and pork.
The girls love using chopsticks. Jessica demonstrated how she can use chopsticks to pick up chopsticks.
Nao did all the cooking ... I just watched and took pictures.
Alyssa found the sour candy that Nao brought us. Alyssa loves sour, but she said this was VERY sour!
Yakisoba. ... I think she was a little frustrated at the fact it was sticky, but it tasted good!! Alyssa and Jessica both liked it.
Taylor even tried one noodle, but of course, ... did not like it.
There was definitely no left overs. For dessert, we served mini candy bars ... she tried one of each. Snickers, Butterfinger, Milky Way Dark, Caramel Milky Way, Three Musketeers and one other little one. She said they were good, but not sure she loved them. She doesn't really love a lot of chocolate.
Then after dinner, we all headed to the theater downstairs to watch Nao's DVD of her playing handball. Handball on the international stage is different than American handball. They play handball on a court with a setup similar to a soccer field - but much shorter. Its played with 7 players on each team - a keeper and 6 others. They can take up to 3 steps with the ball before they have to bounce or throw the ball. They can't bounce it more than 2 times or hold the ball longer than 3 seconds. Its a fast paced game with 30 or 45 minute halves. The game we watched had 30 min halves and the score was about 30 to 10 ... Nao's team won. Nao's school team placed in the top 5 in all of Japan last year ... they are very good. They work hard though - lift weights every morning before school, running after school and then practice. She also plays almost every Saturday too. She loves handball and plays it as often as she can. She just had surgery on her knee to repair an ACL tear and expects to be playing again by January. She is a very strong girl ... not an ounce of fat on her, very muscular and disciplined.
The girls love using chopsticks. Jessica demonstrated how she can use chopsticks to pick up chopsticks.
Nao did all the cooking ... I just watched and took pictures.
Alyssa found the sour candy that Nao brought us. Alyssa loves sour, but she said this was VERY sour!
Yakisoba. ... I think she was a little frustrated at the fact it was sticky, but it tasted good!! Alyssa and Jessica both liked it.
Taylor even tried one noodle, but of course, ... did not like it.
There was definitely no left overs. For dessert, we served mini candy bars ... she tried one of each. Snickers, Butterfinger, Milky Way Dark, Caramel Milky Way, Three Musketeers and one other little one. She said they were good, but not sure she loved them. She doesn't really love a lot of chocolate.
Then after dinner, we all headed to the theater downstairs to watch Nao's DVD of her playing handball. Handball on the international stage is different than American handball. They play handball on a court with a setup similar to a soccer field - but much shorter. Its played with 7 players on each team - a keeper and 6 others. They can take up to 3 steps with the ball before they have to bounce or throw the ball. They can't bounce it more than 2 times or hold the ball longer than 3 seconds. Its a fast paced game with 30 or 45 minute halves. The game we watched had 30 min halves and the score was about 30 to 10 ... Nao's team won. Nao's school team placed in the top 5 in all of Japan last year ... they are very good. They work hard though - lift weights every morning before school, running after school and then practice. She also plays almost every Saturday too. She loves handball and plays it as often as she can. She just had surgery on her knee to repair an ACL tear and expects to be playing again by January. She is a very strong girl ... not an ounce of fat on her, very muscular and disciplined.
A Welcome Party
After we got home from the zoo, we had sloppy joes with Nao. She liked them. We then went to a "welcome party" for the host families and their students. An evening at the park playing games and enjoying a variety of desserts and snacks. Our tastes in American are for much sweeter foods than our friends from Japan. They enjoyed the salty and savory foods more than the rich brownies.
Alysa played some volleyball with a large group while Tay and Jess played on the swingset and with other children.
Steve and Nao joined a game of horse which turned into a bit of basketball.
I think Nao played a little to much as her knee seemed to bother her that night.
Alysa played some volleyball with a large group while Tay and Jess played on the swingset and with other children.
Steve and Nao joined a game of horse which turned into a bit of basketball.
I think Nao played a little to much as her knee seemed to bother her that night.
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